Book Review for The Rest of the Way
March 1st, 2010 by Admin
The Rest of the Way
by Enid Duchin Jackowitz Create Space Publishing Reviewed by: Dave Parker, PFLAG National Board of Directors Past President of PFLAG Transgender Network Recipient of the Human Rights Campaign Legacy Award 2010What a wonderful book!
The Rest of the Way refers to the Talmudic story many Christians think of as the Prodigal Son. In the Talmudic version, when the king asks his son to come home, the son replies that he cannot travel that far. The king responds, “Then come as far as you can, and I will meet you the rest of the way.”  This book is about Ms. Jackowitz’ journey the rest of the way when her older son comes out to her as gay.  There are a number of books about coming out by gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender people telling their stories. There are also a number of books by therapists and other professionals dissecting the struggles most gender variant people go through. The Rest of the Way is more about how coming to terms with the author’s son’s gay identity leads the author toward much greater awareness of herself.  Like many of us, Ms Jackowitz’ life was constrained by her need to meet other people’s standards. This need is deeply ingrained in all of us. We learn from our earliest awareness that some actions and attitudes are accepted (or demanded) in our social environment while others are taboo. Accepting her son’s reality meant giving up many of those acceptable attitudes and accepting many of those she was taught were taboos.  The Rest of the Way takes us along on her journey. It is one those of us who love our children must also travel. Our journeys require a great deal of thoughtful insight into our own needs and recognition that we cannot accept changes in someone else without changing ourselves. Acceptance Book Review Gay Lesbian GLBT Issues The Rest of the WayThis entry was posted on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 12:52 pm and is filed under Gay-Lesbian. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Responses are currently closed, but you can trackback from your own site.
